A lot of us have been traumatized by injustice and abuse in our lifetime. Whether it’s bullying, discrimination, toxic relationships, betrayals, or parental neglect/abuse. These things are always difficult to heal from and suppressing your pain won’t ultimately help you…

If you are struggling with maintaining healthy relationships because of past traumas and childhood abuse. Please know that you are not broken and it wasn’t your fault. But you must do the work and clean up your shit because hurt people will hurt people. And…

If previously you felt good and confident about yourself because some hot girl liked you. By the same logic, are you just supposed to feel like a worthless loser no girl wants now? You see how unstable and reactive your emotional state and sense of self would be…

Of course, I don’t want to sound like a cynic here and turn you off from dating. That’s stupid. How sad and empty life would be without love. I still believe in it and I’ve met good girls also. But you need to be a realist when it comes to dating and meeting new girls…

Being very hard on myself is something I struggled a lot with in life. I was raised by strict parents who had insanely high expectations of me. They demanded perfection from me and if I didn’t perform well at school I would be verbally abused and belittled…

To sum it up: to be competitive you MUST put your best foot forward and show that you are an interesting, spontaneous, and successful guy through your dating photos. You can not be a normal, average guy anymore. And the easiest way to do this is to have photos that…